India-born girls vs. NRI girls

[lancerdesi]

Do India-born girls differ from American-born or British-born girls? If so, how?

[India1989]

Yup a heck lotta difference.

Like see India born girls are more matured, well behaved, sober, more beautiful, more intelligent, more understanding, polite and has so many good qualities.

NRi girls are also good but i have seen many those who are not sober or well behaved and swear a lot. THey think they are too good just because they are in foreign countries. Nope i go for Indian born Indian girls.

[Sparkle]

Yeah there is a difference.. but the difference is there because of their environment..which has a lot to do with their economy..

rich girls in india..are way more outgoing then other girls in india and as far as i have experienced it, girls abroad mature earlier than girls down there.. the traditional way of thinkin is different, but thats because of the environment n such stuff surrounded by u..

[sunilkumar]

NRI Girl think that Indian boys are not of their class.
NRI Girls Beat their husband
NRI Girls think that Indian boys those who are marrying them is for money or to get green card etc.
NRI girl knows that Indian boys are good compare to Non-Indian Guy

Well i am staying with one Indian family as paying guest in UK ....and from them i come to know all this .... :D...

Frankly speaking those male who are not able to do anything with their own, those who are not competetive go for such girl NRI coz they need better life style without struggle... :D such guy never understand importance of money... NRI girls marry them coz they need Indian boy (who are 90% devoted husband)...

Indian Girl can adjust easily with indian born guy.
Indian Girl like to see western country but once they see their craze die ...:D
Indian or NRI both are beautiful but NRI will speak in english.
Indian Girl will love India more...NRI i can't say

NRI girl don't take it in negative sense... what i had written is what i come to know form UK based Indian family...:)

But Being a Indian Male

I will say Most of Indian boys are far good beyond the expectation of NRI gal.
One thing more guy like me cannot marry any girl for sake of Green Card or money etc... I am saying this b'coz i know i am the best and i can have same type of life style in western country as well as in India...Yea i can marry NRI but not for money or Green card... I can't be slave, I don't like to dominate any one but at the same time i will not like to be dominated by others.

As per maturity of gal ==> For indian environment indian gal are more mature...

Indian gal will store money for your future I can't say about NRI gal...

Yea their is lot of difference between mentality of Indian and NRI Gal.

[Priyanka]

Todays Indian girl (Most of) can speak hindi, english and one regional language... :D

Indian girls store money that never means they are miser .... they think for future

Most of Indian girls know how to cook food .... exception are always there.

Many Cosmopolitian girl in india prefer NRI Boy but after marriage they cry ..:D ... sunilkumar can marry NRI gal but i can't marry NRI boy ... kya pata kesaa ho kitna jhoot boltaa ho ...:D

Most of Indian girl are non-smoker and non-drinker ...

Indian girls are ambitious but most of them sacrifice their ambition for sake of family...

Indian Girl always love India

[RajivvijaR]

In New-York I notice that indian girl getting are loosing values while in Surinam(south america) indian culture is very strong.

[rohit khaitan]

Why do u ppl paste such stupid threads???? Why do we have to always fight on religion country and caste???

I mean this is bull shit.... What clouds our minds so much.... Its always individuals and not relgion or society of caste thats better... Simple logic says that. Then why do we fail to understand??

[India1989]

This is not a thread about religion, caste or society. This threads are about Indian girls. One who lives in India and one who lives outside of India. They are trying to figure out the difference and not fight.

[miqsh]

rohit understand what is going. not everything is what u think it to be always. well the debate in this forum is on various issues of india and indians abroad. so if we were to debate on each individual then there would be hardly any members interested in it and also that there would not be much to discuss about after that. :)

[India1989]

wow for the first time miqsh is agreeing with me and not countering me. that's what i want. give me a rest iqbal. stop countering me. I will have a heart attack one day if you keep on arguing with me like this. For the first time in the world someone can actually make me sweat with their argument. You scare me sometimes yo!!

MAn this is a big rivalry. oh well, if this goes on too much then i will retire.

[rohit khaitan]

attention india 1989. I used the word country as well. if u ppl didnt read it... And can u have a bogus discussion like indian ppl are better or american or british???

Lets make a hypothesis, Say take this case itself. indian girls vs NRI girls. Now u come to a conclusion that indians are better or otherwise. (whatever the conclusion may be)

Now there could be somebody like p.t. usha or anjali bhagwat or kalpana chawla who are of course better then so many NRI girls.

Likewise there are NRI girls like say tata young or a talented model like say perizaad zorabian who are of course better then so many indian girls...

So how could u generalise???
Now india 1989 says indian girls are more mature, intelligent, beautiful...etc

Priyanka says they think for the future...(i liked the fact that she mentioned exceptions are always there... a more rational thinking)

Sunil kumar says they beat their husband and think indian guys are out of their class... (perizaad is dating boman irani whos an indian industrialist and a talented actor)

So you got my point????? No offence meant but i would love a logical debate on the subject

[andy001]

Rohit is right in a way...you guys are comparing apples to oranges. Both are fruits, tasty, and heatlhy. One should not generalize the characteristics of Indian (NRI or native) girls brought-up in different environments. Gone are the days when people used to think that Indian girls are shy and non-party kind. As a matter of fact, if you read newspapers or follow news, it has become so common to see our own Indian girls involved in obscene acts in internet centers, schools, parks, recording them using cell phones and distributing them, drugs, etc. I've even heard from my friends in India saying - any guy would be a fool to think that he would be marrying a virgin in his future. That does not mean that Indian girls are bad. It's just that India is on a verge of cultural shift/transition. There are a lot of inter-caste, inter-religion, no-dowry marriages taking place. The divorce rate is high (http://www.hinduonnet.com/thehindu/mp/2002/09/23/stories/2002092300290200.htm). You can see in many places girls swearing on par with guys. Indian girls today are far more open, independent, and responsible. They exactly know what they want and they are going for it. It is upto guys to make up their mind and accept today's girls as they are. Else you will be lagging in the race.

I also agree that NRI girls have their own share of issues too. Just as Sunil knows UK NRI family, I know couple of them in US where parents have allowed NRI girls to date (which is very common) and at the end of it, the girls came back to parents and asked to look for a match for them, as they did not like anyone outside. There are denitely some opposite cases too.

My point is - being an Indian guy, we have this tendency to talk down on girls who are fast and all, but we would happily watch the same girls acting in a rainy song. We need to broaden our thought process and our perceptions need a reality check. You can get along with any girl of any type, if you set your mind to do so and if you both are compatible.

[alpha]

the indian youth in metros live the western way.... so,the girls in those cities neednt be compared with NRI girls.
but wen its about the other indian girls,distinctions can be made..

[miqsh]

yes there are differences in the girls in india and the NRIs. the only way to distinguish is their way of thinking and boldness. since the NRIs look upon the western culture they are turning their backs on the indian culture. they are being brainwashed but a very few have still regard india proudly. there might be a time when they might start despising the indian ways. but above all these these facts it depends on each individual for their decisions.

[India1989]

NRI girls don't care about India. They think India is useless and feel ashamed to call themselves Indians. They feel ashamed to be a friend with an INdina guy. Now does that make a difference to you guys.

[miqsh]

well it doesn't make a change for guys who have the same mentality too.

[India1989]

Well that's kinda true. Lots of Indian guys have the same mentality too.

[alpha]

This are the youth who are brot up outside india... its dem who are ashamed of bein called indian
But if they have have lived sm part of their youthfull life in india,they will surely have that Indian feeling

[rohit khaitan]

Well what do u guys understand by culture?? whats culture?? The dictionary definition says "culture is the way people live."

Now how do u expect a girl living in, say USA to adopt a lifestyle that is generally practised in india. or an indian girl doing it vice versa.
Its practically not possible.

Secondly if someone draws pride from being an indian or american or canadian or hindu or muslim or christian, then i would say that person is incompetent. Becaues his source of pride, his confidence, his self worth comes not from within but from outside.

As i have repeatedly said be a good human. Not a good hindu or muslim or christian or indian or canadian or english... You will do a favour to yourself and the world.

[alpha]

Now how do u expect a girl living in, say USA to adopt a lifestyle that is generally practised in india. or an indian girl doing it vice versa.
Its practically not possible.



so, u accept their are differences between lifestyles ,."cultural diferences"!!

[miqsh]

yes what i meant was not their lifestyle, it is their attitude towards india and its citizens.

[m2x]

These are just stereotypes guys. I know plenty of girls born where I live in NZ and back in India. They're not very different.

[miqsh]

i understand that there are a majority of them not willing to go back to india. that is how a lot of 'stereotyping' occurs.

[Seekrit]

Hi
Well the question is good but in my view the distinction arises as all of our view-points differ frrom one another.
When i lived in India,i was an Indian girl(true-context) but after coming to Aust i have realised that in some ways that was good but some types-horribly wrong.
I think it should be individualised rather than indian/nri wise.
We should evolve with time,get to know things which r prohibited in India but never leave our traditions ,culture n values coz what we r today is because of the way we were raised.
So balance is the best option.

[India1989]

k NRI girls have too much ego which the Indian girls living in India don't as much as their NRI counterparts. To say the truth all the NRI's have too much ego.

[Omni]

I am a man btw, I would have to slightly agree. Me being an NRI every social aspect is different in India and Here. I was born and raised with this mentality, I adapted by seeing other people so it naturally comes to me. I can't do much about it if I have a big ego which I think I don't compared to the rest of the people I encounter but then who am I to say this, If I have a big ego then Im sorry. I'll try to come out of it someway or another.

But im still clinging onto my roots because that is where my love is, and by love I mean the country of India.

[wendy]

i am wonder

[pankaj]

Do India-born girls differ from American-born or British-born girls? If so, how?

I think the Indian Girls are totally Different from American-born or British-born girls.American-born or British-born girls may be stronger fianacially than Indian Girls but in case of relationship with their families these girls can't stay any more in front of Indian Girls.

I used to remember the words given by Sushimta Sen in answer when she had been choosen for the title of Miss. Universe. The Question was :-


"Sau mein se nabbe beimann phir bhi mera Desh mahan aisa kyun" ?

The answer given by Suhimta Sen :-

"Koi na koi kamee apko har desh mein milegee Lekin ek chese jo apko kahin nahin mil sakati wo apko sirf hamare desh mein milegee :-

"Maan ka pyar, Bhai ki fatkar aur Bahan ka dular sirf apko hamare hi desh mein milegaa.

[Omni]

True, in my opinion, the ones who are foreign-born relative to India don't have as much patience and virtue.

With a confused indivduality they become raised to hate India or at least not show it outwards because they see conflicts in the news, they hear about riots and such, Indians imposing violence on Indians, pollution disaster, third world, men killing thier wives...blah blah blah.

They instead feel proud to be a foreigner, some or most of them will even go on to marrying a foreigner who knows more about India than them, supposedly (but that's a diff. story but ill leave you with two words to ponder "evil blood"). ha ha ha...

[sunilkumar]

Once Agian I repeat....

Most of NRI Girl think that Indian boys are not of their class.

Most of NRI Girls think that Indian boys those who are marrying them is for money or to get green card etc... Exception are always there.

Most of NRI girl knows that Indian boys are good compare to Non-Indian Guy as a life partner.

Most of Indian Girl can adjust easily with Indian born guy.

Indian Girl like to see western country but once they see their craze die ...

Indian or NRI both are beautiful

Indian Girl will love India more than NRI girls.

As per maturity of gal it depends on person to person.

Most of Indian girl are non-smoker and non-drinker... Well NRI girl most of time are occassional drinker... I don't know about their smoking habbit

It's always difficult to change the Mentality by which some one is born and grown up.