I want to save her life.....how???

[samaffu]

Hi all,,

I am in a dilemma, can anybody help me out ??? One of my cousin sister loves me very much. But I can't love her. Not b'coz she is not beautiful, but b'coz I am person who can never withstand with one person or thing for the whole of my life.

She is ruining her life in hope of my love. My problem is that I can't tell her this directly as she is a very sensitive girl. I am afraid I break her heart or reject her love she may destroy herself. My sister tried to explain her that I don't love her, but she didn't believe. She holds a very special place in my heart and she can't be my life partner.

What shall I do now? How shall I tell her this. Please help me on this :(

[alpha]

but b'coz I am person who can never withstand with one person or thing for the whole of my life.(

:p so you've decided this is gonna be ur way of life.....
n u want to help your cousin by not getin into a relationship..cause u know ull dump her for another girl in future :rolleyes:


u r concerned for ur cousin ;)

im wonderin what attracted ur cousin to you, mayb this concerness

u r havin startin problem...u r planing to dump all ur girls one after another..still cant say a BOLD "NO" to your first girl..bacause she is ur cousin

[samaffu]

Thanks for ur reply. But u didn't gave any solution. :confused:

Now my problem is getting more complicated. She is now showing signs of destroying herself for me. Last week she burnt her hand while cooking thinking of me. This she said to me.

And I can't help myself moving towards her. She is going crazy for me. She is coming closer to me when I am trying to avoid her more and more.

How on earth can I explain her, what I think? :confused: I am loosing myself to her because of her love, and I don't want to this.

Any solutions, most welcome.

[vedu]

You are the lukiest person of the world
that you have a true love.

Either you are not established now
but if you love her really by heart.
then tell her to wait for some time.
And you also express ur feelings to her. :D

If she can not control herself
then it is ur responsiblility to control her.
you give her lot of love.
love is not lost by giving... :)

[samaffu]

you give her lot of love.
love is not lost by giving... :) ;)

I really appreciate for ur reply.
Yes, I feel lucky to have a girl who really loves me by heart. She can do anything for me. Others think she is not matured (which is a fact), but I will say that she is a undestanding person, and had developed herself for me.

I will try my best to convince her to wait for me for sometime, till I make myself ready for her love. :) Or shall I accept her love now itself?

Will I do justice making her wait for me?

[miqsh]

if u think what is best for her do accordingly. then there isn't wrong for her to wait for u. she is understanding after all isn't she? the decision depends on u.

[alpha]

;)


I will try my best to convince her to wait for me for sometime, till I make myself ready for her love. Or shall I accept her love now itself?

Will I do justice making her wait for me?

:) here it goes....so u dont have a problem a marryin her n livin with her.
first u said, u cudnt adjst with one girl whole throughout ur life.

:) if u people love eachother truly....make her wait ( :p u wer thikin abt marrying so early )

the question is
u want her or not ?? can u live with her throughtout ur life without dumping her after some time ??