how love marriage can be arranged one?

[neha khanna]

When we ask people whether you marriage is love marriage or arranged one, some people reply " Love cum arranged ". But in my opinion love can never be arranged. And if arrangement is there then there was no love, because love never needs an arrangement.
What is your opinion?

[Yash Preet]

ya! it true but to love can't be arrange one .But god gives the reposibility to us to make the love arrange on earth.

[ChiniCutie]

ya i agree with u neha

here in china we also had arranged marriage in early age but no more nowadays ...

my point of view about marriage is that u do need to ask for ur parents' advice some times after all they have more experiences of living they see ppl and know much more than u do ....its always good for u to listen some of their advice ....but the one who make the final decision is always u urself :) :p

[India1989]

well there can easily be a combination of love marriage and arranged marriage. If you see Hum Tum and see the marriage between Rani and Abishek you will understand what i mean.

[miqsh]

but this is not common in our lives. most of the parents insist on arranged marriages or leave the marriage plans to their children.

[Yash Preet]

Ya! its true .
According to me marriage is very important Decision, parent concent should be there, If you are doing love marriage because parents have expirence to juge the person.
If arrange is there then parent should asked to his/her child then make a descion.
I mean to say that old or expience person should be there when you make such kind of descion is to be taken.

[miqsh]

that is absolutely right!!
parents need to be a part of the marriage issue. they can judge the person from the right and wrong. they helped us out in making us choose good friends. and i don't think that there are parents who don't understand there children. so they do what is best for their child.

[sunilkumar]

In Indian or anywhere in world When two people fall in Love with each other they don't ask their parent can they fall in love? ..ha ha ha ..:D

But when it comes to marry their lover... In India they have to talk to their parent ... coz as per Indian culture marriage of boy and gal is establishing relationship between two families.

So boy and girl both talk to their own parent ... about their love affair and make them agree to talk to parent of their lover for marriage, so elder of family can fix their marriage.

That means love was not arrange but marriage was arrange ...:D, and many people say it love cum arrange marriage... :D

Some time boy like any girl or girl like any boy when they see each other in any Party or family gathering & there they like each other so any one boy or girl tell their own parent to talk to parent of person to whom they like about fixing marriage … this is called love (first sight love :D) cum arrange.

Cheers…!
Sunilkumar

[sgnadham]

love marriage or arranged marriage, love exists only when both mentalities match
means, its not a match between two persons but between two mentalities. That I call
as perfect match and got eternal love. Just like love who you like instead of love whom you love, same theory applies for getting permanent love when you love everything what your partner loves then slowly your partner will love your feelings. Thats what i studied in one pshycology book.....sgnaadham.

[kalidas]

Two people fall in love, ask for their families' consent, get it, get married. Love. Arranged.

[andrada]

that is absolutely right!!
parents need to be a part of the marriage issue. they can judge the person from the right and wrong. they helped us out in making us choose good friends. and i don't think that there are parents who don't understand there children. so they do what is best for their child.


really? parents never make mistakes? how is tht? all parents are same? so all ppl wit kids are gud, rational nd inteligent? thn we must live in a perfect world!

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