Myth or truth

[monica]

Myth or truth……….

From this site I just wann 2 know more about NRI
who come to India to find suitable brides for them or their relations.

I wann to know what intentions they come to India, marry the gals here.
They never come back again to take their brides along with them.
They cannot imagine about the troubles their married wives have to face here.

A have met many gals in my life, who are ruined by these NRI’s who take no trouble to call their legal wives to live with them nor did they give them any support.

I just cannot understand their intentions…..


Do they just wann to spoil the gals of their own country or they forget their values after leaving their country???

Can anyone give me answer to my question which has come to my mind a number of times???......

[sukhdeep kaur]

hi monica
i can understant what is going in your mind.
but it has'nt done with everybody.
my sisters also get married in abraod and they are well setteled and living happily.
and i also want to go abraod forever.

[Punjabi]

There is another side to the coin - Indian parents are so desperate to get their daughters married to these so called NRIs that they do not bother to check about the person's background (whether he is already married, has kids etc.) Most of such cases are with guys who are in non-professional jobs overseas e.g taxi drivers, shop keepers etc.

India mein acche ladkon ki kami thodi hai ??

[Neo]

The concept of marriage is flawed in India. Woman is considered like a servant while Man the master. Thats why many men treat their wives bad.
Women who are self reliant will not suffer in such marriages as you described. Only those that grew up with only one lesson taught by their parents - to get married and raise a family suffer like this.
These NRI's that you talk about may be people who are already married to some foreigner, or are not able to make good money for bringing their wives over. So they marry and leave the woman with their parents.
The only solution is for such woment to divorce such people and start working. Instead if they keep waiting for money sent every month and keep breeding kids from these NRI's yearly visit to India, what can be said. Its another of the awful aspects of Indian society.

[sunilkumar]

In India wife is consider as Ardhangani of husband... (half body of his husband) ... That means "do jism ek jaan" (two body and one soul)...

It depend how people interpret things.